Category Archives: Child Custody
Making Up for Lost Time With Co-Parenting
The purpose of court-ordered parenting plans is to protect minor children’s right to a stable relationship with both parents and the role of parents, regardless of their relationship with their co-parent, to be involved in their children’s lives. Most parenting plans arise when the parents of a minor child get divorced; the court will… Read More »
Is Buying Duplicates of Children’s Personal Items the Secret to Peaceful Co-Parenting?
Anyone who has raised children remembers the constant scramble to find missing items. All the socks in your child’s sock drawer may be in perfect formation, but the one pair that landed outside the hamper and missed the most recent load of laundry is the only one your child is willing to wear today…. Read More »
In Co-Parenting, Continuity Is Better Than Perfection
The family courts base their decisions about parenting time on the children’s best interests, a criterion so context-specific that one cannot reduce it to a simple mathematical formula. It considers more than a dozen factors, but a major goal is to minimize disruption to the child’s routine. The parent that spent more time with… Read More »
Getting Your Children Back After You Achieve Sobriety Is More Complicated Than It Seems
If you are in a room with a sufficient number of people, the odds are that at least one of them is a recovering addict, and he or she measures time in terms of before and after sobriety. The day you stopped using drugs or drinking alcohol marks the separation point between the before… Read More »
Keeping Up With Legal Requirements When Your Life Is Falling Apart
In family law, almost nothing is forever. In the best-case scenario, a parenting plan remains in force until the child reaches adulthood; if the parenting plan pertains to more than one child, then it requires modification as each child reaches the age of majority. Modifying a parenting plan at some point between the divorce… Read More »
Supervised Parenting Time Orders Do Not Include an Automatic Reversion to the Previous Parenting Plan
Improving your relationship with your children, perhaps even officially increasing your parenting time, is an admirable goal for the new year. If the court has ordered you to exercise supervised parenting time only, you may feel like you face an uphill battle. Supervised parenting time orders mean that another adult, as indicated in the… Read More »
How Much Can the Divorce Court Micromanage Your Mental Health?
Sometimes the narrative about mental health seems to be changing. Social media personalities who post content about their experiences with depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues attract millions of viewers. Clinical psychologists, mental health counselors, and other mental health professionals find their services in such high demand that many of them have changed… Read More »
Divorced Dads Rule
Don’t believe all the web content about how what women want in a man is money, six pack abs, or a dominant personality. When you look at who gets the most dates on dating apps or, more importantly, who has the highest conversion rate from posting a profile on a dating app to deleting… Read More »
Yes, Paid Childcare Can Be Part of a Parenting Plan
Everywhere you look, you can find editorials about how parenting is more work than it used to be. Even though a greater percentage of mothers are in the workforce today than was the case a generation ago, working mothers spend at least as much time directly supervising their children as stay-at-home mothers did in… Read More »
Parental Alienation in Florida Family Law Cases
When you introduce your new baby to seasoned parents, they will warn you about the sleepless nights, the terrible twos, and the painful but necessary process of letting your children try to find solutions to interpersonal conflicts without immediately swooping down and intervening. What they will not warn you about is the pain you… Read More »